FWIW, the builder of the engine did skimp and install low grade push rods. A couple of of local engine guys said this type of problem is normal when hardened rods are not installed. The push rod did not bend, the side wall was worn away until it snapped in half like a tooth pick. Should have a set of hardened rods by the end of the week.
Just something to keep in mind when using roller rockers on a motor. Sorry if all of my issues have annoyed some of you here....in the future I will try not to bother you so much. Mark