[vettestr]

The big mental issue here is this is my folks home. Technically my wifes mom and dad but still feel helpless to do much more since I am not there in person 24/7.
Dad is a retired Chief, Federal Marshal Service and a bad ass who went through his share of doors in his day. When bad guys screw with your parents or your kids it just puts you in a game on frame of mind.

PS.... watched recent video of maids and gardner's without any signs of wrong doing.