I have gathered knowledge from Rick and Chas and am just now trying all of it combined on a fresh set of gaskets. I use the purple Permatex hi-tack Rick mentions to glue the fiber gaskets onto the windage tray and then Right Stuff for the rest. I use an old credit card to spread the Right Stuff evenly and I work quick because below 80F, it starts to lose its tackiness after about 10 minutes. And I have filled my flutes with JB Weld.
All of this is hysteria and overkill that has been spawned from what I think was an initial PCV problem driving my leaks. I now have an adequate PCV system and am hopeful this will do the trick.