[Tommy]

Consider this opinion as financial advice more than relationship advice. In my experience, when my now ex-wife didn't like something, resolving one specific complaint only led to her revealing a new complaint. If she doesn't like the Cobra, I wouldn't spend too much money trying to make it better. Sooner or later she'll reveal a complaint you can't fix (e.g., the wind musses my hair and I don't like the way I look in a hat or scarf). I suspect you're going to end up choosing between using the Cobra by yourself, or getting rid of it. ... You're not the first to face this dilemma.