Don,
Actually I wasn't kidding. After reading your post I got to thinking about my lights and if the gap was going to look bad. First thing I did when I got home tonight was to look at the lights!
There is a gap, but I don't think it'll kill me
My car isn't painted yet (still in the gray gelcoat). The gap is "just" noticable. The picture above shows it pretty well. I'll know for sure after the car is painted; but I'm betting it's going to be ok.
Anal, no I don't think so ... striving for excellence, perhaps