8 pages to this thread now and turning into a pissing match. Go find a mutually-agreed upon watering hole, crack some Foster's and settle it. Even if you have to stay all night and end up wrestling in the street.
IMHO, There are always two sides to a disagreement, and in my experience nothing beats a plain old face-to-face meeting without emails, voicemails or other forms of non-confrontation.
Here in the States, we call that "Mediation".
Good luck.