[deano59]

thanks guys for your thoughts strangely enough I don't feel all that devastated tm it may hit me later im just glad she is not suffering anymore and is reunited with dad for those that believe in the after life .
my dad used to say don't cry for the dead but weep for the living . tomorrow comes the meeting with the funeral director and arranging all of that .it's been hard ringing around to her friends far and wide breaking the news to them hopefully my sister will fly in from Darwin in the next day or so to help out . but again thanks for your thoughts
cheers dean