Stef,
These Cobra guys can offer more than Cobra advice....
heres mine:
a) make sure bubs does not share marital bed
b) controlled crying is OK.. not yours the babies
c) bottles are good, that way you get to feed baby at 1.00 am...quality bonding time.
d) make time for you and your wife
e) noise does not worry babies.. you can still work on the Cobra
f) disposable nappies ...only way to go
g) bath times fun
h) give your child lots of hugs...and your wife, she wil need it more.
Phil