Its a late 60's VW relay that costs about $35.
The flashlights are looking like a good idea, but I have $300 worth of new headlights waiting to be installed. They are new hi-intensity and the running lights will be the turn signals. Just waiting to fix my problem before I do the conversion. The existing lights are not too good at night, especially at speeds over 50 MPH.
Found a wiring diagram of the relay. Now I can go and check them, I hope!