We could do the Bendix. Would prefer to avoid rt 46. Road surface sucks and lots of untimed lights. We could cut over to route 80. At that time of day 80 should be clear.
Unless of course there is an accident on the bridge at 1:00 am and they shut it down all night....but that would never happen......2 days in the same year at least. 
My preference would be the Lombardi Service Area on the turnpike.
Jim Van and Mike Hahn would be able to meet there easier than rt 46 and rt17