My new correct connector arrived (he replaced FOC) and its pretty obvious which pins not to use (the ones WITHOUT the wires!
) Whats a little confusing is the wire colours are nearly the same as my ECU diagram, but dont align with the pin number in the diagram (if that makes sence) Ill go off the number rather the the colours but that threw me off for a second. So all good (pins 4 and 8 not used BTW).
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