[Tommy]

[quote=SKINNEDR;968125]Mannnnnnnnnnn, I can feel your pain. I would feel hawfull if my spouse had said that about my car. I dovorce after 23 years of marriage...Don't plan on marrying anytime soon, but who knows, when that new Asian girl is going to jump out at me at a car show. Still looking for Miss right, but I'm willing to wait......
Life is good right now, however it is a little lonely at times. It's hard to find the right one when you don't know if it is a financial attraction or some other reason.
Because of the economical struggles we are all having you never know what are the motives...[/QUOTE]

Anthropologists studying human behavior have a pretty good handle on what motivates men and women to partner up, and both are often shallow in their own unique ways. Men are shallow in the way most value youth and physical attractiveness over loyalty, supportiveness and other personality traits. Women are shallow in the way they value financial strength and social standing over loyalty, faithfulness and other personality traits. Most men are drawn to women who will stimulate their sex drive and bear good looking children. Most women are drawn to men who will provide financially for them and their children. Members of neither gender are particularly noble. They're just homo sapiens looking out for their own best interests. The easiest way to avoid disappointment is to not expect humans to behave differently than they always have.